Adoption: light a new life
All life spends a man in search of happiness. Someone goes to distant wanderings, hoping that in unknown exotic nooks of the world will find his paradise. Others' life is dedicated to work, because they believe that money are the greatest wealth. But sooner or later they realize that true happiness - in the simple things that are nearby.
All of us have probably heard repeatedly this saying: "Every man for his life must build a house, plant a tree and bring up a son". Of course, these words should not be taken literally. House - is not just housing, but a symbol of the family hearth. Tree - is not just a plant, but also the personification of the business, that a man dedicates his life to and which can thrive and give the fruit much longer than he lived. A son - a symbol of procreation, the symbol of the immortality of the family, no matter is it a boy or girl.
So you succeded in your life: at home waiting for you a wonderful loving wife, you have a favorite well-paid job, but... without childish laughter house seems empty, and the job does not bring joy. All who confronted with this problem, one day reflected on what to do: wait for a lonely old age or adopt a child?
Adoption can be emotional impulse and necessity, complicated procedure and the only way to achieve parental happiness. In any case, this process is quite difficult from a juridical as well as from a psychological point of view.
Despite the large number of childless families, not all make a decision to adopt a child. On the one hand, it is right, because such a move should not just be spontaneous or involuntary act. Psychologists believe that adoption - the more responsible step than even the birth of one's own baby. The reason is child's previous trauma (loss of the previous family) and more psychological problems associated with the procedure of adoption and raising in a new family.
On the other hand couples nevertheless dare to take such step. Reasons for adoption may be different: infertility, inability to bear a child by age or health, the realization of one's ambitions or desire to do noble deed by a call of the heart. Among the movie and show business stars adoption every year becomes more popular: Madonna, Steven Spielberg, Sharon Stone, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise, Hugh Jackman, Linsdey Lohan, Alexei Serebryakov, Tatiana Ovsienko other celebrities took this serious step attracting the world's attention to this issue in that way.
When people enter the doorstep of the building, they turn sad page in the book of life. Necessary documents for guardianship on their arms. It will take a while, and each of them get a line in "children's institution", where everything - from toys to children - belongs to state. And very soon the baby will get a new family. It seems that all the difficulties behind. In fact, it is only their beginning.
Adaptation of the child in the new family can take up to five years.This is especially important to understand the state of the child, compassion, empathy and encouragement to overcome barriers and problems.
Adopting child from the orphanage, it is important to understand that those kids are special. After all, most of
them pass those situations that survived not everyone. They already have a great "adult" experience, and the more older they are, the larger the experience. Heavy life hardens their hearts, makes them strong and more rigid. Adopted children have keen sense of justice and incredible overlook: heavy past teaches not to trust anyone, especially adults.
Therefore, parents in most cases want to adopt a newborn to avoid all these problems in the future. Families in Ukraine can wait a long time to adopt babies in the orphanage. Another situation is the case with foreign couples.
Adopting a family from abroad to all possible difficulties also adds the problem of changing cultural, social and linguistic environment of the child. Therefore, in our opinion, foreign couples who wish to adopt a child in Ukraine deserve comprehensive support and assistance. Our company «Welcome to Poltava», which is engaged in providing expectant parents with an accommodation for the period to execute all necessary documents, is a constant witness of how each one of Poltava orphan gets a new family.
During the time of our work we have had pleasure in working with couples from America, Germany, England, 
Australia, France, Switzerland and other countries. And all of this families demonstrated with own example that there is absolutely nothing to be afraid of or difficult in adoption of children of middle or advanced age. Because all orphans in the orphanage suffer a lack of love and loyalty to them. If you lend credence, love them and respect, they can be extremely devoted, striving to be "best". And there is nothing wrong if the child will know that was adopted. Parental love and care are capable of miracles, and if the child feels happy, the day of adoption will become a holiday equal with a birthday.
Let's recognize, adoption - a long process with many obstacles, but having got over all the difficulties, life takes on new meaning, people find the most important - children and parental love. And that means that one more happy family came into the world.
